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Ending the Tipping Tradition: Fairness for All

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You’ve just had an excellent meal at a restaurant. The service was impeccable, the staff friendly and attentive. As you reach for your wallet to leave a tip, have you ever paused to wonder—why do we tip? Is it truly an expression of gratitude, or has it become a cultural habit that hides deeper inequalities?

Tipping, a practice that has been a part of our daily lives for generations, isn’t as innocent as it seems. Beneath its surface lies a troubling legacy of power dynamics, inequality and dehumanization that continues to shape how we view service work today. While it may feel like a kind gesture, tipping often creates an uncomfortable imbalance between the giver and the receiver. Perhaps it is time for us to rethink this age-old tradition and explore better, more dignified ways to show our appreciation.

A Legacy from the Past: The Power Dynamics of Tipping: Tipping, as we know it, has its roots in feudal systems and colonial hierarchies. Back in the day, kings, nobles and the wealthy elite would toss coins to their servants or workers as a token of generosity. But was it really generosity? Or was it a way to remind the receiver of their place in the social order? The act of tipping reinforced the idea that laborers were dependent on the goodwill of their “betters” for survival—a troubling legacy that lingers even in modern times.

Fast forward to today and while we may no longer live in feudal societies, tipping still carries echoes of this power dynamic. When we tip, we often unknowingly place ourselves in a position of superiority, while the recipient is left to feel dependent and, at times, reduced to someone who must “earn” their dignity. This imbalance is not just dehumanizing—it undermines the inherent value of labor itself.

Imagine tipping a surgeon after a life-saving operation or a teacher for delivering an inspiring lesson—unthinkable, right? What about slipping a lawyer extra cash for a good argument. Consider tipping an engineer for constructing a sturdy bridge, an architect for designing a stunning home, or a firefighter for saving lives during an emergency. Picture tipping a pilot for a smooth landing, a scientist for a groundbreaking discovery, or a CEO for exceeding quarterly targets. Tipping a politician or a minister for passing a crucial policy or delivering on their promises, it wouldn’t just be inappropriate but would raise serious concerns about corruption and fairness. These examples highlight a clear truth: we inherently recognize that these professions deserve respect, fair compensation and dignity without the need for gratuities.

Dignity in Labor: Why Tipping Feels Inhuman: The very concept of tipping can devalue the professionalism and dignity of service workers. When we tip someone, are we acknowledging their skills and hard work, or are we treating their job as something that requires additional validation to be seen as worthy?

For many workers, tipping isn’t a bonus—it’s a necessity. In industries like hospitality and food service, workers often depend on tips to supplement meager wages. This dependency traps them in a system where their income is unpredictable and tied to the whims of customers. It’s a system where a bad day doesn’t just mean fewer tips—it means struggling to pay rent or buy groceries.
This isn’t just unfair; it’s inhumane. Every worker, regardless of their field, deserves to be paid fairly and treated with respect. A person’s job should not determine their dignity. Instead of tipping, we should be asking why service workers aren’t being compensated adequately in the first place.

Rethinking Gratitude: Alternatives to Tipping: So, if tipping isn’t the answer, what is? How can we show our appreciation for good service without perpetuating inequality? It turns out there are plenty of alternatives that are not only more respectful but also more equitable.

  1. Fair Wages: The Foundation of Equity: The most straightforward solution is to eliminate the need for tipping altogether by ensuring fair wages for all service workers. Imagine a world where waiters, drivers, and hotel staff are paid enough to live comfortably without relying on the generosity of strangers.
    Fair wages promote stability, independence and dignity. They allow workers to focus on their jobs without worrying about whether they’ll earn enough to survive. When employers take responsibility for paying their staff adequately, the burden of “making up the difference” no longer falls on customers.
  2. Human Connection- Gratitude Beyond Money: Gratitude doesn’t always have to be monetary. Simple gestures like saying “thank you,” leaving a kind note, or writing a glowing online review can go a long way in making someone feel appreciated. These acts of recognition are personal, meaningful and often more impactful than a few extra rupees left on the table.
    The Path Forward: Redefining Appreciation: Tipping may have served a purpose in the past, but it no longer aligns with the values of a modern, equitable society. It’s time to move beyond this outdated practice and embrace alternatives that uplift workers rather than reduce them to recipients of charity.By advocating for fair wages, finding creative ways to express gratitude, and fostering a culture of respect, we can redefine how we value service work in today’s world. Service workers aren’t just doing jobs—they’re contributing to the fabric of our daily lives. Let’s give them the recognition they deserve, not through tips, but through genuine appreciation and equitable treatment.
    In the end, creating a more just and humane society isn’t just about changing how we tip—it’s about changing how we think. Let’s start today.

Khushbu Jain is a practicing advocate in the Supreme Court and founding partner of the law firm, Ark Legal.

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